Advice pls. My guy is best friends with his ex.

Hello Chris,

This particular forum contains probably the most well meaning and generally harmless bunch of people with an interest in Anglo-Phillipines matters of the heart, and such like. We don't even like strong language.

Harmless !!! My bite is worse than my bark

Because he was the unknown Chris in this particular thread, he decided his username should be TheChris He's on to being just a passive member. But let's see.

Hello TheChris as opposed to TheotherChris!

Hi Jenibele,

I like that he tells you everything.
But what I don't like is "best friends with ex"
"Sleeping in one room" " regularly communicate with ex" OMG! How can you keep up with the drama, I know you're very matured.. But I think I can't be in your situation or I will go nuts!

It's just hard to have long distance relationship. While your boyfriend is in a room with his ex, I think you need to confront or discuss this with him. Sometimes you need to raise the issue where you don't feel comfortable, the more you said it's fine the more scenarios like that would happen.

I would suggest tell him that it's a bit off,. And from there you would know his reaction to your situation. My husband also says it sounds "Dodgy".

Good luck on your relationship

Regarding the sleeping arrangements......."No way" my wife said.

I guess for an old gorilla I'm ok as well as long as someone grooms me one a week.

Thank you @TheChops for taking the time to read this. We have talked about this and we have been okay since. He knows how I feel about the situation now. I feel bad that
because of what I wrote here I got him exposed to judgements of people. He's a really good person. I think we just really got caught up in a not so usual condition. We are fine though and we are pushing this through. Laban lang.

@Jenibele that's so mature of you however its just been 4 months, i don't believe on short term time of knowing a person deeply however, you'll learn a lot from this situation. But im a believer of LDR, i myself had that for 2 years even if after marriage we're still apart. But if its really for you, no situation can break the trust in your relationship.

I Salute on your Maturity, and how you see things in a different way. That's so brilliant!