You cannot get married on a tourist visa. If you want to get married here you need to get a marriage visa, but you cannot get one until you have met in person and have concrete plans to marry. As others have said, the best option is for him to visit you in the Philippines first of all, and take it from there.
You could apply for a tourist visa (up to 6 months) but you would need to show evidence that you intend to return to the Philippines at the end as I said in my earlier post. I seriously suggest that you insist he visits YOU in the Philippines. For your own safety. I find it suspicious that he insists you visit him. What happens if you innocently visit and find that you're trapped and forced to be a sex slave? Seriously.. make him visit you. It's a lot safer.
I didnt actually want to word it but that is completely my sentiments. Its crazy that we are advising here. He needs to visit her.
a simple question Marian: would you still want to marry him if he wanted to move to the philippines and live with you there ?
I have relatives (two aunts) who's residing in London he wouldn't do anything dodgy. I'd f*ckn cut his dick out. (I dnt know if swear words are allowed here) thank you.. Thank you for the concern really makes my heart swell xxo
Laugh. Talk about canes notwithstanding it seems that opinion is pretty United that your guy should visit you in the Phils. If you do try for a tourist visa I suggest that if you get it, you get your relatives to meet you at the airport and stay with them and get them to act as chaperone until you find your feet.
Why so serious? I get it yes. And I understood some things thank you very much. You're so kind. I know that there are room for mistakes and by that, we learn. Simple. If it's not meant to be, then find a way to make it happen. I personally think that people should live without boundaries. It's just making things complicated. And I know it's there for tons of reasons but visa is just pain in the neck. That man should live here with me xx
Whilst I agree that life holds room for mistakes, I feel that agreeing to marry someone you've never met is not one you need to make. However, one of my favorite sayings is: ask for opinion, mull it over, and then you can just do what you want! What will be will be and whatever you choose I'm sure that people will be happy to assist when they can. Good luck.
Couldn't agree more on that. I know it's absurd. And I totally understand your opinion and respect it. It is risky yes. But we'll never know what might happen next. Thank you so much again for every information that you've shared with me! You've gave me some things to think at xx stay safe!
