latest up date all the red flags have turned out to be true she is another one that is no good just been scamed good and proper again You say there are good ones out there i have yet to meet one. all the ones i have meet are only intrested in scamming me. I feel very bitter again towards phil girls i bought her land and house by the way is the house mine i know we can not own land, because if house is mine i am going pay some one knock it down i been up to it and no one is there just two dogs in ground so did not go in. And thats it i give up now trying find a good one . I will have my holiday and now how i feel will never come back I think you can all tell how i write i am gutted again. I would like see her one time to say to her what i think of her
There are many good ones and you can find them in the most unlikely places. Have your holiday, try and relax and enjoy the climate.
Sorry to hear what's happened Frank The burden of worrying what was going on is now over. Take it easy Keep us updated how your visit goes, relax and explore. take good care of yourself
Frank you don't own the land as you know and you don't own the house that is built on the land either, don't do anything rash as spending time in Philippine jails is a really really really bad idea and if you go around getting houses demolished that is where you will end up. I've stood on the outside of a Philippine jail talking to a Brit who was on the inside, he's been there 5 years on remand not even convicted of anything, really don't do anything you would come to regret, Philippine jails are not nice places. Just relax and try to enjoy your holiday as best you can.
I did try to be positive, but from the start of this adventure Frank didn't seem to have a chance. Don't lose heart, there is someone out there just for you. Just keep cool, don't do anything rash for which you will be extremely sorry for, as oss stated. Filipino Justice is severely stacked against the foreigner to the point of outright Xenophobia. Next time, open your heart to her, and not your wallet. Incidentally, I just found out that my sister in law is well knocked up, so she is out of the loop...
I think you knew it would end this way Frank, to reiterate what the other chaps are saying, please don't anything you will live to regret. I still honestly believe that you will leave the Philippines in six months time a happy man, I'm sure of it. You are almost certain to meet a pleasant girl in that time, I really don't see how you can avoid it You now have a bad experience under your belt which should arm you with all the necessary tools to fend off a bogus Filipina. Good hunting
Hi Frank, Life is good and bad for all of us. We all ride the roller coaster of life. Everything happens for a reason and if you stay calm and move on, things will work out for you. Bitterness eats people up from the inside. She has left and it is time for you to move on with your dignity intact. My advice is to forget her and get to a nice place in Philippines and don't let a scammer affect you deeply. I would not pursue her and I would get as far away as possible from her and change your phone number. Things may look bleak but believe many of us on this forum - a good Filipina is amazing and the search is worth it when you find romance with a lady over there. Filipinas are mostly faithful, loving, honest and caring. You have a long time there so don't let a scammer spoil your holiday. Be good to yourself and move on. Stay optimistic and positive.
I strongly suggest you take yourself here, and use it as a base to explore Cebu City. I stayed there on 3 occasions and cannot fault it. We even had our wedding reception there. Short taxi ride to the Malls. Reception will get you in contact with a trusted driver and private car, for the day, if you need to go further afield. Food in the hotel, reasonably priced, very tasty and abundant. Rooms clean, modern-ish, more than adeguate.
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You willl be here in the Phils for 6 months? Goodness! You will definitely find a good filipina if you stay here that long. So cheer up Frank
latest up date bought myself motor bike to get around the area more it is quiet a walk into estancia.I have been introduced to a few girls but they all have children which i dont want got another date tonight see what happens. Found out about Shema from people who know her she is the biggest slut in Estancian. All the time i have been sending her money she has had two diffrent westener come see her here in Estancia seems like i have been subsidiseing them also there is one here now with her so i paid her money and fare to go meet him what a mug i am
Well, now you are doing much better! Just my own idea but don't necessarily rule out girls who have children. They may be OK. They are perhaps less likely to mess about.
Maybe frank don't want a woman with a child, coz it's complicated. And later on, it's a big responsibility, and it would be a package. I wish Frank you will find the right woman for you..know her in and out, specially what family she have.Is Shema not your gf anymore?
You met a bad Filipina, Frank. There are hundreds of thousands of "true Filipinas" over there. At least you did not marry her and have children with her
At least you now know the truth now Frank, you can now put all that behind you. Sounds like you're having fun
