Hi Maria, When you chat to the person at the CAB tomorrow, tell them straight away that you are from another country and ask the person to speak more slowly to you so you will be able to understand everything. Make notes so you won't forget anything at a later time. Don't be afraid of asking questions as the person is there to help you and you will want to clearly understand what your course of action will be. Best of luck.
yeah will do thank you,they asked me if I can bring someone(friend) who can help me tomorrow to explain the problem,but I don't think I can get...Il try best so we can understand each other..thanks
You have made the right decision the CAB will be able to offer you some friendly advise and offer practical solutions to your situation, I'm sure you will feel a lot better tomorrow after you have seen someone. Be honest and do not be afraid or ashamed to tell them everything that has gone on between yourself and so called husband, they will be able to help you better if they see the whole picture. Good luck, I feel for you.
Better if you send someone your Skype details in a personal message, if you want to start a private conversation with someone just click on their profile picture and click "start a conversation" You might get some unwanted attension making your Skype details public on the forum
I am confused what to do thinking not to continue doing the CAB as I scared and tremble,someone trying scared me yesterday on my way back home from CAB which makes me feel shaking til now...I am alone no strength and power...I spoke my husband this morning and he said final decision its over..
Hi Maria, You have to stay strong now especially as your husband once again told you it is over. It is your decision of course but, from what you posted here, people here have advised you to go to the CAB so you can plan the next stage in your life.
Maria--can i ask you---were you on this forum before--last year--but with a different username? only we had a lady in a similar situation to you--with a problem UK husband who treated her very badly---was that you ?
me and my husband have account here before my husband made it year 2014 but not sure if its still active,,,I remember this forum when were asking information how to apply fiancee visa, so I made my own account 2 days ago hoping to help my problem
Hi Maria, Your husband cannot get you deported simply by saying that he will no longer sponsor you. You must go and see the Citizens Advice Bureau and they will usually find a firm of solicitors (attorneys) who can help you. Assuming that your name is on the lease, you have the right to stay in the house, certainly for the time being.
Maria--we had a lady on here before who told us her partner was transferring all his assets to his daughter--so she could not claim anything of him. was that you ?
You need to go to the CAB, they will give you sound advice, as it is now you are stuck in limbo worrying what to do next. You need a plan to get you out of this mess and seeing someone at the CAB is the first step in that process.
