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Discussion in 'Introduce Yourself' started by Maria Lotis, Mar 2, 2016.

  1. Maria Lotis
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    Hi my name is Maria,I live in Taunton Somerset.I just joined this forum hoping to help me...I need urgent help.My husband left me today, I am heartbroken and shock at the moment and don't know what to do as I have no friends here...I need your help please help me..Many thanks..Maria
  2. Anon04576
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    Hi Maria. Sorry on the bad news. For your immediate safety, when you say he has left you, do you mean he has left the family home?
  3. aposhark
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    aposhark Well-Known Member Lifetime Member

    Hi Maria,
    Sorry to hear of your news.
    We are a friendly lot here and there are many lady members who could also help you.
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  4. Maria Lotis
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    Hi,Thank you so much for your reply...yes he left me today...we live in share rental house he is a landlord..We are 1 year married and no kids .He finished our relationship.
  5. joi1991
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    joi1991 Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    If it cannot be fixed, DIVORCE.
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  6. joi1991
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    joi1991 Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    If it cannot be fixed, DIVORCE.
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  7. Maria Lotis
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  8. joi1991
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    joi1991 Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    If it cannot be fixed, DIVORCE.
  9. aposhark
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    aposhark Well-Known Member Lifetime Member

    See what happens as the time goes on.
    Hopefully the ladies here will give you some advice.
  10. joi1991
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    joi1991 Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    I have no idea about divorce and settlement but my boyfriend once told me that his friends are keepers because they don't wanna undergo divorce for it's freakin expensive!
  11. Anon04576
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    Understood. I just wanted to make sure that he hadnt physically asked you to leave the home. So from a practical point of view you are at least okay. If he is the landlord of the building then Im sure he will come back soon enough and maybe then you can possibly talk things through? Im sure you're upset at the moment but see if you can strike up some dialogue and talk about why he wants to leave.
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  12. AndyRam
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    You are in the situation and we are not. I hope you are as at much peace as you can be.

    What help are you exactly needing?
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  13. bigmac
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    hello Maria--and welcome to the forum. lets try to deal with this on a practical level.

    do you have a job ?
    are you named on the rental contract for the house ?
    if your marriage really is over--what to you intend for your future--? where do you plan to live ?
  14. Maria Lotis
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    Thank you for the reply
    Before he leave,Iv been told to go to stay of my new friend(Filipina) which is new here (4 months in the uk)and I met once.But I asked him to give me a time and not to leave the house now as I don't know how to tell the situation ...Its really hard for me as they just know me...
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  15. bigmac
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    Maria--where were you married--what country ?
  16. Maria Lotis
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    Thank you for your message
    I am confused and don't know what to do of this situation,my question is can I still live in the country even we are separated with my husband?
  17. Maria Lotis
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    I was married here in Taunton Somerset Registrar office in England .
  18. aposhark
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    aposhark Well-Known Member Lifetime Member

    I would go to the nearest citizen's advice bureau asap and get a good idea of how you stand.
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  19. Maria Lotis
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    I am currently unemployed as my husband don't want me to work.I did not know as he is not open to me everything.He did not trust me at all...I don't know what to do in the future im still shock and cant believe this happen to me..
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    thank you..

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