I just can't help but to sob again.. Thank you for the sympathy...... I really appreciated it.... Im just in a state right now where all I ever wanted is just to be in his embrace......... I feel so low.... But thankful for all the members who've been here...
I can see how much you love your husband. He's a very lucky guy. Don't worry everything will be okay.
I do...... Deeply much.... This pain is just unbearable...... I know it'll pass..... But the longing is just too strong.......
Yes. I felt that when he left. Just chill out and relax, watch cinema (comedy, horror) etc. lol just to ease the pain.. You will be okay once he will be on Skype and everything will be back to normal.
Trix. Take notice of what Keith says. If I were you I'd go for the Family Permit. It's free, but there is the possibility of Britain leaving the EU in the future which may cause problems. Do it before that happens.
Yes I am currently on it now.... Gathering all details... Keeping me a bit occupied.... Thank you.... It's just hard to think and process all new informations for me right now... But @PatVen is helping me...
@Trix, i understand how it feels like what you goin through right now, your husband is lucky on how much you love and misses him, so he is to you, it's fine its just a part of life, you will be together soon for sure, just keep it up and quickly as possible to prepare all the need to apply for your Family Permit cause we don't know if UK will leave EU by June. and that cause changes maybe in some rules.
Thank you so much.... I am talking with him right now and I feel a bit better.... I will gather all the requirements needed for my Family Permit.... Thank you so much....
Trix, just mention to him those list of requirements that I told you and also the links about family permit so he will have some idea.
Yes I did... And the only thing he worries about is that he's not a british citizen yet.... He's been living in the UK for 4years and have all the proofs of contract, council taxes, bank statements, national insurance number and all....
It doesn't matter Don't worry. He can exercise his treaty rights since he already resided in the UK for more than 3 months according to EU law.
Don't think anyone is ever good with goodbyes @Trix! Soon enough you guys will be together again. Our (fiance and I) first goodbye was in May 11th of 2014. But it will be a "hell yeah I am back and no getting rid of me this time around, we are stuck with each other forever" for us in a few more days. So hang in there and always keep yourself busy.
its really hard leaving a loved one behind I also had to leave my fiancé behind after being together everyday for six months and suddenly leaving her to catch my flight back to uk is one of the hardest things I have ever done, made me feel really bad about leaving her. what keeps me strong is that I know we see each other again soon.
I know.... I know we'll be together someday.... It's just hard even now that couple of days had passed.... Still feels like it's just yesterday...... I always tear up whenever I wake up in mornings and go to sleep at night... And sometimes, even if im talking with him..... It's so hard..... Emotions too strong.... I went to sleep last night with him on skype..... I told him just please be there till I fall asleep... And he did..... For about two hours I woke up seeing him crying on my screen..... It hurts..... But im happy seeing him.... Everything is too precious to me..... Im just trying my best to stay strong.....
we do same kind of things, like use skype and viber and facebook. do you know when you next see each other? I just booked to go back to see my fiancé in June for her birthday so we use that as something to really look forward to, rather than think about being apart, we have good and bad days, but just try to be strong
hopefully sooner than "some day" if you crack on with the FP Application you could be together in a month
If I was Trix I would be asking her chap to join the forum, lets see if he is as interested as she is to get it together. Very doable as people have pointed out, time is of the essence!
Many of us on this forum have been through the same feelings, Trix. Try to keep as busy as possible.....
I will pray for your relationship I am bearing the pain too but your are lucky to marry him unlike me that can only pray to have mine back it cuts deeply in me knowing he is dying
