Hi, Nice to be back here again. On a sad note, me and my Filipina girlfriend split up this weekend and it made me so sad. It's just one of those things and I felt sad but I'm ready to move on and find another Filipina girlfriend and with all the help on here I hope and pray I find one with help through this site. I would feel more cheered up if I got to chat with someone through here.
Sorry to hear the news Nick34, but good to see you want to get back on the horse so to speak There are one or two single girls using the forum, you never know your luck. Why did you split up with your girlfriend if you don't mind me asking?
Thanks Timmers, I was ready to go to Phils but couldn't make it because of my work schedule and she didn't believe me and told me to never call her again. I felt really sad.
She's not worth it then. Long distance relationships only work when 2 committed people are strong enough to endure the hardships and patient to wait for the right moment to beat the odds. Good luck in finding your girl!
Sorry for your situation. Frankly I recommend that you do not jump into another relationship on the rebound. It feels a bit strange to me that you are seemingly heartbroken at splitting up with your Filipina "girlfriend" (whom you never met?) , and are now looking for 'another filipina'. Why not just look for another woman, regardless of nationality? I'm sure there are plenty of eligible women close to you in the UK. If for some reason, you have your heart set on specifically a Filipina then there would be no shortage of takers, although I suspect that there will be slim pickings on this forum and perhaps a dating site might suit you better. Hope this helps.
Sorry about what happened to you, @Nick34. Have you tried working it out with her again? I am sure she was very disappointed and said to never call her again out of sadness/anger/disappointment. If you think she's worth being with, try talking to her when she's all calm and thinking straight. If she doesn't budge then at least you tried. Ball is on her court.
And its also good to see she has a husband who would fit in perfectly at a British Filipino photo shoot
I am sorry you are feeling down. However, what I will say is that if the girl is so demanding and so quick to "split up" with you because of a valid reason, then she is really not worth your time or effort. We only have one side of the story, so I don't want to say too much other than, if these are the facts, then she is going to be hard work and will most likely throw a tantrum whenever she doesn't get her own way. Secondly, why are you looking only for Filipinas? Don't fall into the trap of stereotyping a whole nation of women based on other misconceptions. I often hear "Filipinas are good family women". That statement makes no sense, and besides I know of a number of Filipinas who have come here, got their visas, then the marriage breaks down for various reasons (including the Filipina having an affair). We are all human, with the same fallacies as the next man/woman. I also hear "Filipino men are always sleeping around". Not ANY of the ones I know well. I know some younger Filipinos who are playing the field - hey, what's wrong with that if you're single? The girl of your dreams could be living in the same street, or town. So, go out, have some fun and meet some people.
I've been thinking that her husband looks like one of our guys here that I've seen on a photo before.
It seems there may be more to young Nick's story than he has divulged. It would be interesting to hear the young lady's side of the story.
You deserve someone better @Nick34 someone who will understand and trust you. That's the most important thing when you're in a Long distance relationship.
Now waiting for Nick to copy and paste the apology that he wrote on the 'other' forum, after having posted the same sob story and then being outed. Filipinas deserve to be treated honestly and fairly too... IMO.
Maybe that's his way of catching attention from Filipinas? Not a good way though. Why not find and get to know someone without bringing out the past?
