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Looking for my life partner

Discussion in 'Looking for Love' started by Paul H, Jan 1, 2018.

  1. Paul H
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    Paul H New Member

    Looking for someone to share and life and future.
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  2. bigmac
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    bigmac Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    can you be a bit more specific ?
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  3. OTT
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    OTT Active Member

    Do you know what you are looking for , or where you should look ?
  4. Maharg
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    Maharg Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    Does anyone ever know, until they find it? Really?
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  5. Paul H
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    Paul H New Member

    Guys I’m new to the forum. I’m looking to settle down can’t really be anymore specific than that as who knows. As to where to look are they all hiding? I’m just open to start talking to someone genuine with a good heart.
  6. Mattecube
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    Mattecube I have no need Trusted Member

    All hiding in the Philippines get yourself over there it' a great place.
  7. Paul H
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    Paul H New Member

    I’ve been lived in Asia for over 4 years.
  8. OTT
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    Well that's what I meant really . I assume you would like a filipina as you are here , but some more info would be helpful ie

    Do you want to start with online meeting and chat ?
    Are you looking for older or younger woman ?
    Are you in Philippines or prepared to go there ?
  9. Paul H
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    Paul H New Member

    Start online get to know someone ideally Filipinos here would be an advantage. As I’m in the UK. If I meet someone online from the Philippines that’s also ok and can see where it goes. Age is a number as long as the person is good that’s all that matters
  10. OTT
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    Ah ok , that helps . Try joining "Date in Asia " or "Pinalove" ( both free).
    You will get messages , reply to who appeals to you , ....but tread carefully . Many are genuine girls who are looking for someone like you , but there are also scammers who will ask you for money , directly or indirectly within a short space of time .

    Number one Golden rule , and NEVER to be broken under any circumstances ,
    Never ever send money to someone you have never met in person and spent time with .

    In fact a decent honest girl, would never ask for money from a stranger online .
    If you don't mind paying a fee Filipino Cupid is well spoken of .
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  11. Paul H
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    Paul H New Member

    Many thanks for the info really appreciated
  12. OTT
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    One thing that I should add, re the dating sites . It is usually, ( but not always) the girls who message you first, will be the ones who ask for money or help with “a problem .

    I would suggest deciding on an age range , even wide, then looking through and reading profiles , then sending short message to anyone who is of interest.
    Just be normal and friendly, you will probably get more replies than you expect.
    Good luck .
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  13. graham59
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    graham59 Well-Known Member

    Agree with the above post.

    I met my wife through DIA (back in 2011). She's only 34 years younger than me... but so what ? Other people's problem, not ours. :D

    She never asked me for a peso, and it was I who made the initial approach.

    There are 1,000s of scammers/part-time prostitutes/ladyboys on there now, but of course also plenty of genuine ladies.

    You'll just have to get skilled at filtering.

    Good luck. :like:

    PS.... smile on your DIA profile pic. :D
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  14. bigmac
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    bigmac Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    another point----a fair number of pinay ladies on dating sites are still married. divorce doesnt exist in the philippines..but annulment does. no guarantee--can take years--and cost you a lot of money.
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  15. OTT
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    Online dating sites can be a real help in making initial contact , but really needs to be followed up with a face to face real life meeting .

    I'm sure many here will tell you that the best and easiest way to meet Filipinas is to book an air ticket and go there where there are more opportunities than you can imagine.

    Malls , restaurants , hotels, jeepney stops , so many women .......and a lot less competition for you to deal with than with a filipina in the Uk .
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  16. graham59
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    graham59 Well-Known Member

    Yes... have to say, I was walking along a Philippines beach arm in arm with my lady 3 months after my initial message to her on DIA. Several trips each year following that. Next one, next week. :like:
  17. Mattecube
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    Mattecube I have no need Trusted Member

    Yes indeed roll on the 19th
  18. OTT
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    Enjoy your trips guys
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  19. Drunken Max
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    Drunken Max Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    A ladyboy is not a transexual prostitute.
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  20. Jonalyn
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    Jonalyn New Member

    Hi there same here finding life partner. Maybe we can try

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