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Discussion in 'Relationship Advice' started by roaming-on, Aug 11, 2015.

  1. roaming-on
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    roaming-on Active Member

    thanks for all your inputs! Howerd, whats the difference of electrical wall socket for every country? I thought its standard...
  2. Dave_E
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    Dave_E Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    This is a useful reference guide ==> World plug and socket types.

    However it becomes difficult to identify the socket type when something is plugged into it.
  3. knightstrike
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    knightstrike Well-Known Member

    Like what the others have already said, Skype uses Microsoft servers.

    If you could ask the person you are talking to, to send you an email, I can teach you how to get the IP.

    Or if you know the Facebook, I could help you too.

    But other than that, you will need to introduce a Trojan. And that's illegal and against my moral code. :lol:
  4. bigmac
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    bigmac Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    quite frankly, Roaming ON-----if youre at all suspicious----if i were you i would tell him that--then throw the onus of proof on him--if he cant or wont--you have your answer.
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  5. Timmers
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    Timmers Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    I agree, if the chap likes roaming-on then he will not be offended in any way if a few probing questions are asked, I'm quite sure of that.
  6. Dave_E
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    Dave_E Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    Quite true. :like:

    Better than asking him to unplug all his electrical appliances so you can check his sockets.
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  7. Timmers
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    Timmers Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    Yeah, it is a bit extreme, "are you on 50HZ or 60HZ do you use 2 pin or three pin plugs?" great chat up lines :)
  8. roaming-on
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    Thx knightstrike..I will ask him to email me and I will let you know, so you can assist me..many thx!
  9. roaming-on
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    We are chatting for a week only, and of course if I will confront him, he will defend himself. But for sure I will find the answer the soonest.
  10. knightstrike
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    Careful though, if he is really a scammer and a smart one at that, he'll use a proxy/anonymous email and also IP changer. :lol:
  11. roaming-on
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    I really hope all men online are honest and true to their words....but not all! I started to feel doubt about this person, coz he said he is a busy person and have wholesale jewelry business in europe and USA. At first ....I got impressed! but I got disappointed when we saw each other again on cam thru sype, he still wore same shirt.It means he dont even changed after a day after....and he looked lazy and slappy. It seems he was on the net overnight.
    Maybe he was just ambitious guy trying to build up himself and trying to sip blood like vampire...lol
  12. roaming-on
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    I have a feeling he is...there are times, I loose hope on finding my true love online,coz I only found scammers and liars....
  13. knightstrike
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    knightstrike Well-Known Member

    A lot of people are liars online. Men or women, does not matter much. You have the veil of anonymity to protect you, most of the time.

    That's easy. You know his name right?
    Then ask him what the name of his jewelry business.
    Google it, and put two-and-two together.

    Ask him lots of things. Try to build an image of him, a mental map in your mind. When the facts don't connect, press him on. But make it seem that you are just curious and very interested.

    Did he graduate from university? Where in US and Europe are his shops specifically located at? Is he a divorcee? How many kids does he already have? Does he have LinkedIn? His work history? How many languages does he speak? How does he travel?

    Ask him for his pictures of his travels.

    You don't always need to use software and tools to uncover if someone is lying online. Most of the time, that's illegal.

    Just common sense, good judgement and knowing how the mind works, that is mostly what you need.
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  14. roaming-on
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    thank you so much! definitely I will use all that questions to him....
  15. Pobreng Englishera
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    Pobreng Englishera Active Member

    San mo sila nakikilala? Anong dating site ang gamit mo?
  16. roaming-on
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    Can we pls. talk english here? So all people can understand....but you can private message me if you want, for us to talk in our language. I met few of them in mingle2.
  17. ChoiAndJohn
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    ChoiAndJohn Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    To be honest, you have to know what you are doing to be able to reliably detect where someone is from their IP address. You're going to get much better results getting to know the person slowly and finding out information, building a picture of them in your mind, gathering facts and so forth, than making elaborately shaky deductions based on email headers or anything else. Just talk to someone on skype, get to know them, don't exchange money, naked photographs or agree to get married :) - and the rest will look after itself in time.
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  18. bigmac
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    don't exchange money, naked photographs or agree to get married :) - and the rest will look after itself in time.

    they would probably be photo shopped anyway---or photos of somebody else.
  19. Pobreng Englishera
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    I see you want them to understand. Lol.
    They don't like the idea that you have to go undercover to learn the truth about this guy. I perfectly understand them. If you had to do that surely he's not worth it. Move forward.
  20. roaming-on
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    Of course, Coz I dont like to be bias here. I know,I cant please all people here,each of us has own opinions and beliefs. I am just sharing what I am going thru. And I dont expected this will sounds nice to everyone. Anyway,at the end of the day, I will decide for myself and will face the consequences. Jenibele, I hope you will not encounter one of them along the way...

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