How did you come to meet your partner

A Chance to share the reason your here at all

After you Dom in the interests of cronology

Which one
mmh, i guess you mean wifes.. ok , i let my pants down guys.
pinay wife nbr. 1 i met in 1990 in Manila at some Theater folk festival in UP in Manila, she was my current Gf (fee months or so ) and in a stage of mental insanity i decided to return to Germany to make some real big bucks in order to afford a car. I already lived 4 years in MNL and it could have been any other Gf too.
So i said to her ( naive as i was), you wanna tag along to Germany.? Said and done. Unfortunately the bastards in the German government decided o abolish the 90 day visa, extendable forever, one just had to cross the border and "balik" again for the next 90 days. NOO, they decided to Reunifiy Germany and since they finally ended the truce as well, they also decided to play US immigration policies. So, we had to marry which ultimately lead to divorce 6 years later.

Now pinay wife nbr. 2 i met in Germany, she was already married before and lived happily in a "divorce year", thats how we met each other and told us our sad stories i a pub or so, well, rest as usual. the little negative point is, that i was already almost on my final expatriation back to the Philippines and she didn't really like to live there anymore. Well, somehow i or herself convinced her to move to Cebu and history repeated. i may have a fable for woman with antisocial personality disorders.
( I am careful now, i studied ALL available material about disorders... that will not happen to me again. ) And i now maintain a good friendship with a few shrinks here, just in case i am "failing in choices " again, LOL.

Now the current Gf (i was never alone since my 13th birthday, except voluntarily) i again met during my divorce phase. I though i start practising a bit with flirting on neutral territory (after all, i was almost 20 years total married and had forgotten all about dating, not to mention my looks and other arguments such as big bank account had faded )
For humping around i could go in any disco in Cebu City, but chances to find a SERIOUS partner there were more or less NIL. I mean a 50 year old guy in a techno disco...come on...
mmmh, new idea, practise in facebook....at least one can log out before the laughter gets painful, right ?
said and done, the first one got stuck right away, we facebooked a bit , but mostly SMS. Guys, hilarious, jackpot all the way, never laughed more in my past years. My staff thought i went loony...
After 2 weeks we could finally meet for 2 hours while i was on a shopping trip in the city anyway. After all, i can not get away from my business in another town and inviting her over was a bit out of the question. Real ladies don't do that, right?
Well, she must have really liked me, because when i invited her over for the fiesta a week later she even agreed to stay in my house. of course i suggested NO SEX for 1 month, so that we can get closer in love and not in LUST.
That must have impressed her too ( LOL, i know pinays...) and she did not touch me for 2 days.

So things went the natural way and i invited her to stay in my ridiculously big house after a few eeks and since then she lives here. (8 months)
We are currently plan for the future and see what we can do. originally she wanted to go back to Dubai for her work when i met her, but well, she now orientates in an other direction. (The family don't need money, so she is free in her choices, a seldom occurance )

Oh, the question was also the reason why we are here, well, i live here on my own choice and it has nothing to do with the other gender. I could have stayed in Central America, then i would probably have a wife or gf with a bigger bum

Follow that well done Guenter

Loverly post oss

but the first meeting?

I met my loved one on YouTube!

The net has really changed the notion of Meeting I guess Your more Southern than me mate Unless theres more continental drift going on

Well. I am definitely not South of Portugal - I come from Humberside, UK.

To Hull.....and back then

I did live in Hull for a while.

i met my partner through my dream nyahaha

Well since Dom isnt going to post I will lol

Having failed once I decided to revisit Cebu after a year last March 12 month without a plan .just open to the moment

During my first week a certain member here (who will remain incognito)asked if I could deliver a present for graduation to his step daughter.......sure why not so I was duelly met by five young ladies in a mall and invited to the party !!

Having been threatened with various unpleasant realities by sead member and being British with all the natural decorum that engenders I politly declined and went my merry way.

Fate however then played its part and my cell number was thrust into the unwilling hands of My now missus by the sister of said members wife who bravely texted me and the rest as they say is ......................Q.E.D.

me and hubby have a common friend.. he saw me on the yahoo 360 of that common friend and then sent me a message if we can be friends too. at first it was just like nothing for us coz both me and him were in a relationship.
after more than a year we bcame good friends online.. i was single then and he was having problems with his gf till they broke up and we continue our friendship which ended to being a couple, coz of constant chatting and phone calls
on his third visit we got married

thats nice to know anyone is the right to decide on things really

Great Kuya did you say your not getting married in Cebu?