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Discussion in 'Introduce Yourself' started by Alan Salter, Jan 5, 2023.

  1. aposhark
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    He also spoke some Filipino so he had been over there many times and should have known about the risks of being with an under age girl.

    Back in 2008 and not long before I met my wife, I went into a Cebu City bar.
    It was such a hot day and the bar was very close to the hotel where I was staying.
    I needed a cold beer so I went inside.
    In less than a minute lots of girls came over and I told them all that I was only interested in buying a beer.
    It was dimly lit and there were dancing girls inside.
    In less than half an hour I left and some of the girls followed me as I had told all of them that I wasn't interested in anything other than a couple of beers.
    When I chatted with them, they told me their ages and they were 16 and 17.
    I was shocked because they looked so much older.
    A couple of days later I went away to do some scuba dives in Negros and when I returned, the bar was closed down.
  2. Mattecube
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    Mattecube face the sunshine so shadows fall behind you Trusted Member

    Where’s Alan?
  3. Druk1
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    Druk1 Well-Known Member

    Lived over there since 2018 I read, he is a sex tourist helping girls :rolleyes: he offers sex education advice on how to avoid pregnancy on his youtube channel :rolleyes:
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    oss Somewhere Staff Member

    Like many threads it's drifted off but I hope we have not scared him too much, the lassie may well be really good and really nice.
  5. bigmac
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    bigmac Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    i dont suppose reply #51 helped.
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  6. aposhark
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    aposhark Well-Known Member Lifetime Member

    This video by TimK has some good advice:

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  7. aposhark
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    aposhark Well-Known Member Lifetime Member

    The original poster, Alan, hasn't been online since Jan 11 so I suppose he's gone now!
  8. John Surrey
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    I don't :D

    She may be but it doesn't look like he's being very honest with her about his own financial position.
  9. John Surrey
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    He does... My Number 3, aside from doing most of the market shopping:

    We were lucky enough to get Fiber during the pandemic and I installed AP's all around our property so we could share it with the neighbours and their kids for school etc.

    Had to name the hotspot after my wife of course :rolleyes:
  10. Druk1
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    His breathing sounds bad for some reason?
  11. Mattecube
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    Mattecube face the sunshine so shadows fall behind you Trusted Member

    Ill or nerves.
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  12. Druk1
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    Maybe overweight and lack of exercise? He doesn't look like he goes to the gym, that's why I was surprised when he was talking about health. It seemed he was getting out of breath walking around making the video.
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  13. HONEST DAVE
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  14. John Surrey
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    R u still watching HD... or fallen asleep?
    Have to admit I wound it on to reasons 2 and 3 quite quickly :D
  15. HONEST DAVE
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    It can only be a good thing if Alan has been scared off from making a new life for himself in the Philippines, but this is highly unlikely? he will go there regardless of what anyone says, in his quest to study nature he may chance to find the Lessor Poked, Great Hairy Puzzy, but this little mammal can cast a spell on man and has affected all of us to some degree. Even if he was to go there for a months holiday as previously suggested, to study the lie of the land??? he is not going to see all that much from the bedroom and the GH Puzzy will be weavings its spell?

    This is destined to fail from the get go,, age is against him for a start an old dog of 69yrs is not best suited to major change and learn new tricks, the change of air can cause havoc with the health of a Foreigner in the early stages, this happened with me when I first moved there, being a fairly fit healthy 62yr old within a few weeks I had a week in hospital after contracting a gut parasite and over the next few months I contracted Tonsillitis 3 times something I only ever had once in UK, eye infections is another problem I often had.

    The age gap between him and the young girl, seems to me that it would be at least 45yrs, there is a high degree of chance that young girl old man does not work all that well? his income of around P75K a month is more than adequate to sustain a good life style in PH, I could not say this with a high degree of certainty, but would suggest myself and three others in the family, lived on a lot less closer to P60K, however I did build a sensible Non CHB insulated house not requiring AC and had already bought and paid for a Car and Motorbike, we live 1.2klms out of our small town and 7klms from the city of Dumaguete. To get this house finished I had to use up half of my emergency contingency fund and a decision was forced upon me to return back to my Hoose in UK, I'm sure glad I did not burn that Boat. Having no contingency fund to fall back on would be the primary reason I would give for Alan not to consider any long term future in PH.

    I'm going to suggest there is a lack of awareness with many Foreigners on just how low an income your average Filipino family is forced to live from or some of the dumb things they do with what little they do have, understanding that these people leave the PH education system no better than the standard of a 10yr old back in UK, as soon as they gets their weeks pay it is gone in 24hrs, just like it it would be with a 10yr old here in UK when they get their pocket money. Your average Pinoy construction worker has P400 a day if he is a Mason, a Carpenter or Electrician may get 450 to 500 sometimes labourers can be a s low as £300, mostly these guys are all dumb and do not know or understand their job all that well and the same goes for the foreman and the Building Contractor Boss, when I was building the house I gave my workers all the same rate P400 per day this was paid on the Sat, on the Mon and the Tues they would borrow p100 by Wed this would be 500 to 1000, when I asked my wife what went on with them she said half their pay every week is used up paying loans one is for their Motorbike and then they have the one for the Many family Birthday parties.

    In many cases where the old Foreigner meets young Girl the young woman is highly likely to come from an impoverished background as described above, due to her lack of a good education she has arrested development, she will be telling the old man (she did very well good) in her schooling, this may be true as she is good at singing, dancing and clapping of hands, if she does not have a job that would be a warning sign to me? at this time Alan will not know just how dumb she really is, he will be thinking that she cannot express herself all that well in a second language and excuse her failings, unbeknown to him the Pheromones of that GHP will be weaving their magic. At some point Alan will have asked her advice on his chances of living there on his given income of P75K a month, this to her is like winning a jackpot this being the equivalent of 6 months pay for a low to medium income Filipino family and for this kind of money she will open her legs to any wrinkly old Great Grandad. she in turn will be telling him they both can live like a King and Queen on this income and be able to save more than 50% of it every month and soon be able to build a nice house, on the face of things this all sounds very truthful and just what Alan wants to hear, but far from the reality of life in the Philippines, often having to give extended financial support to the other family members.
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  16. Druk1
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    @HONEST DAVE you should rewrite Stephen Leathers Private Dancer but set it in the Why Not? in Dumaguete :D I knew a guy, maybe you also did, rented a house for a 17 year old girl and her mum in Dumaguete, he was in his 50's,had a fishing tackle shop in Surrey, he is dead now, the girl is now a lady, lives in the UK and manages the shop successfully :like: matandang mayaman madaling mamatay :rolleyes:
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  17. bigmac
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    i must have missed something earlier in this saga---but where do you get the idea of a 45 year age gap ?
  18. Druk1
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    Cryptozoological creature?
  19. HONEST DAVE
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    Never Married and no Children and there was a mention of her being young, this strongly suggest her to be in her early 20's or less and he is 69, I'm pretty dam sure she is not in her 40's and of the very rare Lessor Poked Great Bald Puzzy???
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    aah--so it was simply your assumption.

    "HONEST DAVE said:
    Alan you are now telling us you are 69yrs of age and you talk of this young woman, but you never did mention her age, your suggestion of her being young does that mean she is perhaps 50years your junior or something very close to this, maybe you are already registered on a sex offenders list here in UK, if not you Fecking should be.

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    That was before you edited out the last 6 words.

    And members wonder why Alan seems to have left the site?
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