hello ..i need help. just found out my bf cheated on me .. we have sent the 2nd visa app for marriage visa.. and waiting for the result this end of May. is it best to withdraw the visa app..and how do i do this? or just let him have a visa but he cant get here to UK?
Hi Liza, sorry to hear your news. it's your choice but you can withdraw here:- https://www.gov.uk/cancel-visa If he has a valid visa then technically he can get to the UK unless you inform UKVI otherwise. Is your choice definite? I mean can you not work it out with him?
Hi! Liza, just wondering how certain are you that he cheated on you? If it is just hearsay don’t just believe it or is it just a suspicion? Balance your decision, unless you proved it! Otherwise, it will be unfair for him. Don’t jump to conclusion unless you are sure about it. Maybe you can work it out with him? Still your choice! Good luck!
Sorry to hear your bad news, however I agree with AM2018 here. I remember a jealous person trying split me and my Fiance (now wife) we managed to get over the problem and have been together five years. Long distance relationships can be challenging but worth fighting for
Marriage visa? Is this a settlement (fiance) visa or marriage visit visa? You can cancel but hard to get a refund once they started processing.
Not a good situation, but like the others say make certain its true and not just a mis- understanding or maybe a moment of madness which he will regret for ever...
Im sorry to hear about this but as what others have highlighted, have this cheating been confirmed already? Long distance relations are difficult to manage- sometimes small stuff turns into big things out of nothing. If this is confirmed, are you then not willing to work things out? Its up to you of course. If you have answered the above questions, then you can deal with the visa stuff. You dont want to pull out your application based on a hearsay etc. If you are sure, then you might want to get in touch with the home office and iform them of your plans to withdraw the application stating there is no reason to process the visa etc.
Long distance relationships can be difficult and paranoia can eat away at your well being if you have suspicions. If you want to carry on then you need to be able to trust the person. He needs to open up his social media / messaging to you. If he wont then the question is why not? He can choose privacy or trust.
Ask yourself one question. "Can I trust him with my love" Your answer will lead you to your decision. Be true to yourself and your faith.
