bringing my girlfriend to the uk

I agree with @PhilPensionerthe poster is a troll

I have a feeling you are both correct, OP has gone from having a high IQ and working in IT all his life to having 6 previous relationships and now being finished with all women, never mind I guess some people have nothing better to do...

Have sent this to her

I've decided it's over Jenny. Things can't go on. You said you were scared and stayed up all night because I took an overdose. I think this was more due to guilt. You knew I would do anything for you. I even paid to speak to a solicitor in your country. Have already said I would've gone back to work in IT so that I could pay for your divorce and wasn't worried about the cost. I just wanted us to be together and now everything is ruined. You keep saying you love me but also say we should we should take more time to get to know each other. When I said I would meet you in the philippines and asked where I would stay, you said with you in your bed so that we could kiss and hug. This suggests you loved me more than you have just said. Don't know whether you really love me or not anymore. You should never have gone on filipino cupid if you weren't really looking for love. I went on there because I was looking for a future wife. I told you that on WhatsApp here. You have broken my confidence in women and myself. I told you what happened to the previous 5 women in my life. I no longer want any woman. You are number 6 who has destroyed me. I'll give you a chance to reply and then I'm blocking you. Goodbye Jenny, my love and the love I lost

Have deleted my address on here so you can't send the Teddy back. Had him for 55 years and he was very personal to me, which is why I sent him to you. Do what you like with the gifts.
Sorry to have told everyone on here that I took a big overdose. I did say I had a lot of mental health issues

Who's the troll?

I’m sorry goku1 but you seem to have been taken for a ride, as many do, your lucky you have found out now and not spent more time and money travelling to Filo. I assume from your post that you’ve parted with funds already.
I’m sure there are lots that will disagree with me here but I personally don’t like dating sites, and suggest staying clear, or at least be VERY cautious about what your told on them. My view is that the percentage of success on them is very low.

I hope you don’t mind me saying, but for someone with a self acclaimed high IQ, you don’t strike me as a Zuckerberg. Never part with a penny and make it clear from day one that your not an ATM machine, take your time, the truth always reveals itself with time.

I met my wife through a dating site..plenty of fish. But she was already here..same town. I had no idea she was filipina till we met up..she had put Asian on her profile.

I think too many blokes on dating sites have no idea what theyre letting themselves in for.

Fortunately I haven't given her any money. The only money I spent was on a solicitor in the Philippines and that was for around £31. Have explained the situation to him as we didn't have the consultation. He is refunding the money

sounds like a win win situation for you. As we all know, the percentage for a lot of women from overseas is to take advantage, coupled with the LDR situation makes it more dodgy than crossing a minefield blindfolded. I was also fortunate to be personally introduced by friends (uk male with Filo partner) - and although we met, we then had the pandemic via video link so we both had plenty of time to iron any doubts.

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Perhaps a more approachable dating profile next time ?

Thanks for that - I just spat my coffee all over my iPad screen !!! - class

That's not me keyboard warrior

I thought youre in Surrey, John?

No, my name is Mark and if you must know. I live near Sittingbourne

Sorry to tell you guys that I must be either deeply in love or mad or a combination of the 2. But I'm talking again to Jenny. I can reassure you she isn't after money as we've spoken about her coming to the uk and she us getting her id sorted out in Monday, so she can get a passport. She's never been on a plane before and asked how long the flight would be. I told her and she seemed quite shocked. Anyway, I asked her if she needed anything to get a passport and she flat told me that she cab pay for herself. Not sure if she'll pay the visa fee, but until I see her passport and date issued, I won't pay for anything. I know I said my confidence was knocked back by her saying she was going to Taiwan to work, but she has turned the job down so that she can be with me. This might be a ruse I know, but at what point do you put faith in someone. I'm really happy, but dud tell her she should've taken the job so we could both pay for her divorce l. Oh well looks like I'll have to go back into IT again.

wake me up when she gets a visit visa.

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Lol

She is sorting out her passport on Monday, I will probably send her the money for the visa yes, but it us not that expensive and it will be the only way to see if she'll come to the uk. If she spends the money, then I've not lost much have I. Sometimes we have to trust people and my gut tells me she will come to the uk. Her body language on video calls suggest she isn't lying

Hmmm... reminds me of my wife telling me some of the girls online, in the cafe, used to quietly get their breasts out to encourage the guy on the other end to send some money... for additional support so to speak

.............and if they (ukba) refuse the visa they are all going to die.