Sad to say, itS my last day tomorrow as a visitor back to reality I mean back to 30°c . HelP me to pray for my spouse Visa by October .. ☺☺☺☺ I think The ex wife of my fiancee still jealous . She wanted to have an agreement and signed by me stated there " I'm not part of the properties" lol. She wants 50% if ever my fiance sell his houses .
Yayy I'm sure family and friends can't wait for you to be back Emz. I'm sure the luggage is stuffed up with pasalubong.. Is the ex wife British? Haha don't be threatened Emz over your dead body
Money stuff is pretty standard in divorces in the UK, and stuff does get split. Whether or not she has a claim on the house would depend on what was agreed when the divorce went through. Be warned, though, that it is possible she will have a claim on 50% of the house - depending on what went on before when they got divorced. If you are his wife, though, you automatically have a claim on his share of the property. So you will have a claim so don't sign anything. However, as his ex-wife, she will have those exact same rights that you will have. Ask any bloke on here who has been through divorce (including myself!) and you'll realise that these things can happen.
Yes she is. Until now she's always moaning . I met her once and his boyfriend. I can see her eyes and the way she talk that she can't believe that we're getting married soon. And now she can't stop texting to my fiancee about the properties. She wants 50% . She wants to meet us in a court lol. I told her in front of her 2 daughters that I'm not after of the properties of my fiance even 1 penny. She's really scared after we get married
Thanks @Maharg Anyway, I read last night her message . She mentioned about my fiancee doesn't paid the divorce . And now she's asking money before we left tomorrow. She's really desperate woman. I can't imagine she's is nurse practicesuner but desperate of money. I'm not bothered regarding that properties . I am type of woman who simply live and want to be happy.. my fiancee told her last night that it's expensive here to get solicitors so why not if that agreement is made from philippines .I made a joke last night to my fiancee I told him what if I'll not sign ? Lol. I can't understand why she's is desperate of that houses which is still on mortgage .
Hate to say it, but she might just be after what she is entitled to if your fiancee hasn't settled his divorce yet. No need for you to sign anything, but between you you may have to buy out her half of the property if you want to keep it. From memory (so not 100%) I believe that to do that you have to get the house valued, then subtract the remaining mortgage from that. Once that is done, you take half of what is remaining and that is what is required to buy her out. I don't know the whole situation, obviously, but it seems that she may well be the one in the right here - but don't sign anything. It's irrelevant and you will only incriminate yourself. And it makes no difference to the outcome anyway, but may effect your own rights in the furture. Leave it up to them to sort out. It's not your problem.
Definitely true Yeah and the best thing to do is not to sign any papers.. I don't want to get involved but divorce been done last 2013. And my fiancee don't want to sell the properties now cOz he look after the profit . I told her ex wife nothing to worry about the properties coz I know she did this for her 2 daughters not only for herself.. my fiance made a promise to her and being honest . According to her eldest daughter (22 yrs old) which is she stay his dad after the divorce , she think her mum is still affected about our wedding soon but she already have a fiancee . Do you think she's still in love ?
If I were you, I'd tell your fiancee to get all his financials sorted with his ex wife before you agree to come over permanently. Otherwise there is going to be 3 of you in this marriage.
Is there more than one property involved? I really think they should sort it all out and go for a clean break now that both are moving on.
As far as I know my fiancee has 6 properties including the house where we stay now. But only one house was name of her ex wife . Houses has a Tennant and only my fiance paid it on mortgage and paid it if need to be repaired . We're almost 3 years in a relationship and here wife was so silent but when she knew that we're are getting married she's started to annoyed us. And my fiancee not really open to me about his own problem . When I start what happened he always answered you're not here to get involved
It makes no difference whose name the houses are in. If they were bought during the marriage then they are 50/50 shared ownership. I think she did everything on trust and is now realising that, if he gets married again, things will inevitably change. You say she is after money, but it seems to me that she was the exact opposite when they got divorced and never went after her share of things, which she may now be regretting. It would have been better if they had sorted this all out before. Why not just sign over another of the houses to her, keep 2 for yourselves, and sign one each over to each daughter.
They had an agreement before when they process the divorced .. my fiancee keep telling her that nothing change on it even I'm getting married in PH. To be honest I need more info about this matter . Her ex.wife start last week and now both has no peace of mind. She badly need an agreement before we left but we ran out of time. We already planned the upcoming wedding and already informed my friends . I'm just thinking what if I cancelled it ..
Was it a written agreement? I actually think his ex got stitched up a bit and is just realising it. Trust me, this could get messy!!
Thanks Maharg. I just really don't know if it's written or not . TBH I'm not bothered with the properties. My fiance has owned bongalow , so I'm satisfied with that in case he will gave it to me lol. I prefer to gave that houses to her 2 daughters . But anyway thanko for your time and thank you for the info coz I really don't what's the policy about the properties thats why I'm not bothered hehehe.. God bless
