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Why did she lie?

Discussion in 'Relationship Advice' started by Jai, Jun 14, 2015.

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Should I stay with her?

Poll closed Jun 21, 2015.
  1. Yes

    8 vote(s)
    88.9%
  2. No

    1 vote(s)
    11.1%
  1. aposhark
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    aposhark Well-Known Member Lifetime Member

    He should really find a way to be certain about her age.
    He is at Uni so he will find a way.
  2. graham59
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    graham59 Banned

    He is 21 and she is 16. Hardly pervert and prey for goodness sake.

    As long as he is sensible and obeys the laws of the Philippines for the next couple of years, what is all the fuss about ?

    Let them be young and in love. Some people have short memories it seems.
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  3. TheChops
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    TheChops Member

    Hi Jai,

    I'm Omi and I'm a Filipina,
    When I was dating my husband 2 years ago I was 24 and he is 34 I lied as well that I'm 28, because I was afraid he will think 10 years age gap might be not for him, and that time I really really like him and I don't have any intentions of taking advantage, but more of securing that our relationship won't just end quick because I'm younger.

    But the thought of lying as well is not nice, but it was all pure intention after 3 months I told him.

    And he is more happier, he took it on a different level of understanding, on which he explained Age is just numbers, it won't define anything at all.

    He also said it won't even changed how he look at me, because he understands why I lied.

    Maybe you should ask her why she lied, and don't be mad. Try not to think about the age gap it's just numbers.
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